Suffering and possibilities of healing.

Suffering and trauma.

There is so much suffering in the world just now. You wonder if it is just because we can see it all on the news, that it seems so much worse. Flooding, earthquakes, fighting, wars. Every part of the world is affected.

As a Christian, I yearn for everyone to know that they are loved by God, and that justice will one day prevail. Yet on the darker days of suffering and conflict, I can understand why people might lose hope. However, the Bible reveals a God of goodness and love, and in Jesus’ life, death and resurrection, we can see how suffering can bring possibilities of forgiveness and purpose, that can be transformative for our lives.

When people are questioning or in pain, I reflect on what resources God has given us for us to experience healing. Spiritually, we can listen attentively to people, to pray and to reflect biblical principles of confession, forgiveness and grace. We have doctors and nurses who can treat physical problems. We have psychiatrists and therapists who can support people experiencing psychological struggles, and we are thankful for all of these professions and individuals.

Having a holistic approach to healing seems like an integrated approach to trauma and suffering. Physical symptoms can cause psychological anguish. Spiritual dilemnas can result in physical distress. Mental health pressures can impair physical health. People have to be seen as a whole, to consider their entire history and being, to find relief and possibilities of healing.

In the midst of all this, discernment is so important. There are some practices we might question, or have a problem with. God gave us brains to think and instincts to help us make good decisions. Biblical principles and the wise advice from different experienced practitioners can also help. It can be tough to find an effective and integrated healing pathway.

At the Transform Trauma conference in Oxford earlier this month, I met people from all over the world, therapists, psychiatrists, social workers, researchers – all with a desire to help people be well. There were sessions on new trauma therapies, breath practices to promote regulation, creative practices to enable self expression and many voices challenging institutional injustice. Experienced experts  in this field such as Bessel van der Kolk and Gabor Mate challenge some pharmaceutical practices and suggest a variety of approaches to support those who have experienced trauma, violence and suffering.

Whether it is listening to veterans, or people with chronic health conditions, or sitting with whose trust has been broken, or who are struggling with addiction, I think integrated approaches of spiritual, psychological and physical are all needed to promote healing.

I think of the many examples of Jesus healing – whether the blind man at the side of the road, or touching the leper, or of his compassion for the woman who was bleeding. In Matthew 9:35 it says ‘Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom and healing every disease and sickness.’

Jesus consistently taught and healed and loved, and tailored what He did for individual circumstances.  God shows that same abundant and healing  love to us, and then in turn gives us opportunities to pray for and to love others. In a broken and hurting world, what a wonderful calling, to form communities of encouragement, prayer and healing.

Bishop Morris Maddock said that Christian healing is ‘Jesus meeting people at their point of need’, and it is so beautiful that He does this for each one of us. May that grace and healing touch bring a word of grace and rejuvenation which we all seek.

Gracious God, You are our Creator, we are made in your image, and are your beloved children. We seek to do what is good, but we often make mistakes and rebel, and get in a mess. For Jesus sake, forgive us, cleanse us and give us a new beginning. Help us to live well, to eat healthily, have a balance between exercise and rest, and choose to fill our souls with things that edify and inspire. When we are hurting or in pain, may we know your healing touch. Even when we are burdened with regrets and shame, help us find forgiveness and to forgive ourselves. Holy spirit bring health and healing to us, and give us courage to then bring your healing touch to others. May we receive restoration and rejuvenation, so that we can be channels of healing and peace. Even in our brokeness, may we trust that there are possibilities of health and wholness, and discover that out hope has been restored. In Jesus’name, Amen

Creativity and faith- C S Lewis.

Oxford, St Mary’s Close.

I visited Oxford this week for a trauma conference- more of that later. When on a tour round the city, we were brought to St Mary’s close, outside the University Church of St Mary the Virgin. We were walking innocently down this close when the guide said- look at the door- does that remind you of anything? We looked round.

Mr Tumnus?

On the wooden door opposite the church entrance was the most beautiful and elaborately carved lion. At the sides of the door were faun figures just like Mr Tumnus. There was also a lampost there……….

St Mary’s church was one of the places that CS Lewis worshipped, and coming out of the side entrance, past the coats in the cloakroom was a door near a lamp post beside a lion and a faun. Coincidence? Maybe not.

C S Lewis wrote the children’s fantasy story ‘The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe’ and the many sequels, to try to convey the themes of the Christian faith to children. He did so through the adventures of four children Peter, Susan, Edmund and Lucy who through a wardrobe enter into a fantasy land where they came into contact with a white witch and meet a noble lion called Aslan.

Lewis did so because he wanted to use his imagination to create a story as a means of explaining the power and beauty of the Christian story for a new generation. Initially, you read that he took evacuees in during the second world war, and he told stories to entertain them. Over time, these fragmented fairy stories developed into something more substantial, and though subsequent generations, these stories have brought much pleasure and insight, and been retold in series and film.

Descriptions of Aslan the lion, symbolising Jesus are especially intriguing- he is described as good but not safe, as a wild lion. When you encounter him, it is as if he knows everything about you. Susan and Lucy’s relationship with Aslan is especially poignantly exptessed when harm seems to come to him.

In another place it says:

‘Wrong will be right when Aslan comes in sight,
At the sound of his roar, sorrows will be no more,
When he bares his teeth, winter meets its death,
And when he shakes his mane, we shall have spring again.’

If you haven’t read the books or seen the film or series recently, it would be so worth doing! Such a richness of story telling, characters and symbolism which is edifying and can inspire our souls.

Dear God, we are so grateful for Christian poets and authors, artists and song writers, who use their imagination to seek to help us connect more deeply with the beauty and goodness of who You are. May we take time to read, explore and appreciate all that tells us of your love Lord Jesus, so we can take time to soak in your grace and kindness. In You may we find our values and identity once more.  Holy spirit inspire us all to listen to your voice, to faithfully and creatively embody your love and truth in our daily lives, with family, friends and neighbours, so we might all shine like stars in the universe, holding out the Word of life to all who seek. Show us how to be and what to do, in Jesus’name, Amen.

Dogs- the most noble of companions!

Gabriel

Gabriel is the most amazing of dogs. He is loyal, trusting and courageous. He is intuitive, energetic and intelligent.

We rehomed Gabriel as a family pet over 6 years ago. He had a difficult history, and he was a handful to say the least. A lurcher crossed with a staffie with a strong prey drive!

In the midst of his enthusiasm for befriending any human being he meets, the thing that stands out about Gabriel is his intelligence. He loves cheese, so he learned to open the fridge door with his nose. When we put a child proof lock on it, that was no deterrent. And when we put him in the next room, he opened the door handle to get into the kitchen. He is one determined dog.

In the last six months, Gabriel has had cancer. He has had surgery and chemotherapy. His prognosis is reasonable . The vet team have all been wonderfully thoughtful and helpful- I cannot thank them enough.

Gabriel has been amazing. He has tolerated the treatment almost without complaint. He has had his pain killers, anti nausea drugs, and just wanted to curl up beside me and rest and heal. He still totally loves eating, enjoys the variety of sniffs on his walks, and wags his tail wildly when he sees me. He is the most noble of creatures!

Pets are such a blessing. With my dog, I have spent so much time with him recently, there has just grown such a deep affinity. I often know what he is thinking- although it can just be a variety of food, walkies and more treats! (He also loves coffee, but I have him on decaffeinated).

Looking after an animal is such a privilege.  It has reminded me of the importance of conservation, and to care for every creature, whether giraffes or porcupines, humming birds or sea turtles. Appreciating the intricate way that they are made, their nature and abilities is so inspiring. It is a blessing indeed.

In Genesis 1:21  it says ‘So God created the great creatures of the sea and every living thing with which the water teems and that moves about in it, according to their kinds, and every winged bird according to its kind. And God saw that it was good.’ The precious nature and wonder of all living creatures is acknowledged.

Gabriel is doing well just now, and I cherish every day with him, with all his foibles and eccentricities – he is a loyal and wonderful companion. May we cherish all the animals and creatures on this earth, and treat them with thoughtfulness and care.

Creator God, With power and imagination and ingenuity, You have formed all things, all birds and animals and fish, and declared them to be good. Open our eyes to the wonder of the natural world. Lord Jesus we confess that we are greedy, and exploit the earth. We extract resources, we overfish and pollute the waters. Forgive us our destructive attitudes and habits. May our noble and loyal pets remind us of the wonder and unique personality of each creature, and may we treat each one with care and compassion. We thank you for all vets and conservation organisations, who seek to preserve life. Bless all pets, and may we be wise and thoughtful owners, who do our best for all, Amen

The power of theatre.

‘In Loyal company’

At the Edinburgh Fringe, I went to see the play ‘In loyal company’. It is a one man play about the true story of a world war two soldier from Liverpool- Arthur Robinson, and what happened to him during his time of active service. It is story beautifully told, with humour, pathos and insight.

It is a production well worth seeing, but especially as it was written and acted in by Arthur’s great nephew David William Bryan. There is something so moving about the story being told by Arthur’s family member. It has a ring of powerful authenticity, as you listen to what happened to Arthur as he is deployed to Singapore, and hear of some of the details of what took place afterwards. The above photo is of Arthur’s nephew Paul Bryan, who does some of the publicity for the show.

Telling the story of a loved one who served is a special privilege, and this is storytelling at its best. You get completely caught up in what is happening on stage, and also on the words at the end remembering those who didn’t make it home, and about why it is all worthwhile. 

Reminding people of the significance of past history is so important. In so many families, people have served in conflict and war, and their stories still resonate.

In the bible, there is often a symbolic aspect to memory as when the Passover is celebrated, remembering how God brought His people out of Egypt. Remembering also takes place in the sacrament of communion or the eucharist- when people remember the meaning of the last supper and Jesus’ death on the cross. These rituals help new generations reflect on the meaning of freedom and sacrifice.

Taking time out of our busy lives to remember, always has purpose. It could be to think of a family member who is no longer with us, and to bring to mind their story. It could be a time to recentre on a truth about God, and about the nature of His love. Having a quiet moment to reflect helps us recall the things that are most important in life.

May we take time to ponder stories from the past, and to honour those whose lives are so worthy of recognition and respect.

Gracious and Eternal God, we thank You for all the creative ways there are to tell a story, through theatre and film, word and song. We thank you for the bible, for stories of men and women who trusted You in the most difficult of circumstances, and of Jesus Christ our Saviour, willing to lay down His life, out of love for all people of every age. Lord Jesus, may we follow your exanple, and live lives of love and meaning. Holy Spirit, may we think.of those who have given their life for our sake, and use us to share the ultimate story of love and sacrifice for all. May we be inspired by your example Lord Jesus, to pray, serve and love, now and always, Amen.

A partial eclipse.

At the airport

The other day,  I thought that there would be no chance that I would see the partial solar eclipse. I was boarding a plane in London. I had no special glasses. I didn’t have a colander with me- strangely. Nor did I have a cut up cereal packet to look through. All the instructions were not to look at the sun, so people were trying to take pictures from the plane with their eyes shut. This did not bring about a good calibre of shot. What we could see of the sun was that it was incredibly bright- it seemed to take up the whole sky.

Somehow, in the midst of all the restrictions, from the plane window, this shot was taken. You can just see the image of the eclipse reflected in the lens of the camera, above the sun.

One of the British Airway cabin crew then gave us some special glasses to look through, and all of a sudden we could see the eclipse clearly. It was an incredible experience, to see the shape of the moon impacting on the circular shape of the sun. To stop and think that this was the moon partially blocking the sun’s rays was quite spectacular. It could only be seen with the glasses, and was really awesome- the sun, moon and earth all aligned.

I did try to take a photo, but it meant aligning the phone to take a picture through some dark glasses, out a reflective window of a moving plane without looking in the right direction. This enterprise came to nothing! 

Just having seen the eclipse was enough. It was strangely powerful, and also came about through a lovely British Airways staff member, and the team work of passengers on a plane sharing glasses and trying to help each other out. It was really lovely to be part of this group, filled with awe and good will.

It reminded me of a bible verse: ‘For by him (God) all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through him and for him.’   Colossians 1:16

People had different experiences of the partial eclipse, some had clouds, darkness, bright light, strange reflections. However we experienced it, people are often speaking of how it has inspired them to think of the vastness of the universe, to reflect on the wonder of all things, and that it was a deeply spiritual experience. Anything that invites us to marvel at the nature of the universe, and to contemplate the nature of our Creator, must be a good thing.

Gracious and Loving God, the fabulous Creator of the universe, we bow down and worship You. In You all things are created, from cosmic dust to stellar nurseries and neutron stars, things we don’t even begin to understand. We marvel at the magnificance of all things. Lord Jesus, as we marvel, may we recommit ourselves to looking after our world, not polluting it or exploiting it. May we treat all things with reverance and care. Holy spirit, bring order out of chaos once again, and breath new life into our planet where eco systems are under such strain, and where renewal is so needed. Hear our prayer, for your glory’s sake, Amen.

The call of the sea..

It never disappoints.

I live inland. There are many days when that is a blessing- I can enjoy visiting the city nearby, with its shops and museums and theatres. Every now and again though, I feel the call to the sea- to a spacious sky, the raucous cry of the seagull, the salty smell of seaweed and the roar and crash of the waves.

Today was a day when I needed to visit, and I was fortunate to have that opportunity. It was a mixed day- a bit moody with showers and black clouds with rays of sunshine occasionally breaking through. The things is there is no bad weather at the shore- it can be peaceful or dramatic, melancholy or inspirational. Even in a storm, the sound of the waves crashing on the rocks can be mesmeric.

Science verifies our instinct that time at the seashore is good for us-  we know that the crashing of the waves brings negative ions and increased seratonin, and the acoustic rhythms of the breakers bring somatic release and the reduction of cortisol. (that is the simplified version!)

There is also a spiritual aspect to just being at the ocean. The poet Rainer Maria Rilke said:

‘When anxious, uneasy and bad thoughts come, I go to the sea, and the sea drowns them out with its great wide sounds, cleanses me with its noise, and imposes a rhythm upon everything in me that is bewildered and confused.’

Another poet George Herbert said more simply: ‘He that will learn to pray, let him go to the sea.’ For him there was something of the vastness of the ocean that brought humility, and a realisation of the power and mystery of God.

People throughout all of time, have tried to put into words the healing power of just being at the sea.

In the bible too, in the psalms it says:

“Mightier than the waves of the sea is His love for you”.                  Psalm 93:4 

Jesus spent so much time on boats with fishermen, and on beaches and on water. It formed the backdrop to some of the most amazing aspects of his teaching and miracles.

It is good, where possible, to spend time at the ocean- to find perspective, to rest, to be inspired, to find restoration for our souls. May we indeed find healing in reflection and space, watching white horses chase across the blue horizon!

Gracious God we can be so busy, preoccupied and anxious. We thank you for times that You call us to the sea, to rest, to reflect and find space. Lord Jesus you called fishermen to follow You, You stilled the storm, You commanded the waves- so great was Your power. Thank you that when we feel overwhelmed, we can come to the seashore, just to be. Holy spirit blow away deceptions, soothe our troubles, challenge our complacency, restore our energy, rekindle our hope. In the ocean breeze, may we discover fresh purpose and inspiration to sustain us for all that lies ahead, for your name’s sake, Amen.

From overwhelm to peace.

Jesus is here.

I was having an off day. Do you ever have a day when you feel out of step with what is going on around you? I was ruminating over some different things that I just couldn’t figure out. So I got up early in the morning, went out and sat down on a seat overlooking the water.

Thoughts were going round in my head. Is this the right way forward, so was it too much? Should I factor this in? What about this? However I looked at my dilemna, I just couldn’t work it out. The harder I tried, the least it all made sense. It was exhausting and dispiriting.

After a long time, I looked at the seat I was in. It was a wee double seat, and I thought God was saying to me- you don’t need to work it all out right now. Jesus is with you- just know He is present and find peace.

This was such a relief. There was me trying to figure so many things out, and Jesus was just inviting me to know He was there, and that this was enough. I still didn’t have all the answers, but I was seen and loved by the King of the universe, and this in itself was wonderful.

Instead of wracking my brain, I  just needed to listen to God. It reminded me of words from Jeremiah:

‘Call to me and I will answer you, and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.’ Jeremiah 33:3

It is reassuring that we are not left to our own devices, but can trust that God is wise and knows all things, and all we need to do is listen. What a great way to exist. We don’t have to figure it out by ourselves, relying on our own devices. We can bring our cares and worries to God, and ask Him to help. What a blessing.

Gracious God, we are like stubborn children trying to be independent and do things ourselves. And we are always surprised it doesn’t work. Forgive us for our pride and self reliance. Lord Jesus, thank you for the invitation to come to You, and to find peace in your presence. Thank you that we do not need to figure everything out, but just to trust. May your holy spirit guide us, and help us discern Your voice, Your message of love, in Jesus’name, Amen.

Inspirational nature!

The most elegant of creatures.

This week, I had the privilege of visiting Akagera national park in Rwanda. We left at 4am, to arrive early to have the best possibility to see the animals. They are more likely to be out in the cool of the morning or evening, going down to a waterhole for a drink. Everyone is looking for the ‘big five’ – lions, leopards, elephants, rhinos and buffalo!

Akagera park is in north eastern Rwanda,  is 433 square miles wide, and consists of diverse habitats, including the Kagera river, lakes, swamps and savannah plains. It has an amazing variety of aminals, and over 400 different types of birds!

It is an extraordinary place to visit. Guides take you through the landscape on bumpy dust tracks in your vehicle- you round a corner and see hippos and crocodiles in the river, then giraffes walk across in front of you, and an elephant peers at you through the bushes. It does feel like the garden of Eden! There are so many birds with exotic hues and amazing songs. Stunning.

Zebra, impala and lions…….

You can be travelling for a while, and just enjoy the views. Then suddenly you see a different species. The vehicle stops, the binoculars are out, and the debate starts. What kind of bird is that? Seeing a malachite kingfisher or a fish eagle is such a magnificent sight. And it is an exciting process just not knowing what you will see next.

Towards the end of the most memorable of days, we gathered on the plain, and watched zebra, waterbucks, buffalo, impala and lions. Surprisingly they were all sharing the same space very harmoniously. It might only have lasted for a few minutes, but they were all together and at peace.

It reminded me of the vision in Isaiah 11 of God’s holy mountain, where it says in verse 6

    ‘The wolf will live with the lamb,
    the leopard will lie down with the goat,
    the calf and the lion and the yearling together;
    and a little child will lead them.’

It is a vision of perfect harmony, when old fears, animosities and cruelties have melted away in the perfect presence of God, and all creatures and people are at peace.

Standing on the plain in this gorgeous place, it was a moment of stillness in the vastness of the landscape to experience the magnificence of God. It was pure worship, with a sense of the possibilities of revelation and hope, that one day the world can be a better place, a place where there is forgiveness, redemption and reconciliation. It is God’s gift to us, if only we will embrace it.

Creator God, what an imagination You have to have fashioned so many amimals and birds, each with a striking and unique design and personality. Thank you for quiet moments when we have an opportinity to consider Your creation, the work of Your hands. We are in awe of Your  majesty and inventiveness. As your creatures we rebel and often live in strife and conflict, but You came Lord Jesus to give up Your life for us, to bring possibilities of reconciliation with You and with one another. May we leave behind jealousies and resentments, and choose to live in harmony and peace. May your holy spirit inspire us through moments of deep communion with nature, to see how You would like us to live, and to glimpse a foretaste of heaven. And may this inspire us to be peacemakers on earth, for Jesus sake, Amen..

The challenge of forgiveness.

Rwanda genocide.

The Rwandan genocide started on 7th April 1994, when there was an intense 100 days of bloodshed and atrocities against the Tutsi minority. The trigger for these murders and rapes was the assasination of the Rwandan President Habyarimana, but the evidence is that the subsequent killings were preplanned and premeditated.

There are many factors that lead to the genocide- colonial influences, such as the Belgians instigating a divisive national identity card with identification of Hutu or Tutsi, tribal tensuons, the UN failing to honour the Arusha peace agreement, or to listen to Lieutenant General Dallaire’s advice on the ground, the international community not taking the cries of the Rwandan people seriously. The list could go on.

After the President’s helicopter went down, road blocks were set up, Hutu militias started searching houses looking for Tutsis who were accused of the assassination, neighbours macheted neighboura, and there was a devastating frenzy of violence. Some moderate Hutus tried to shield Tutsis, but were often killed as a result. Films like Hotel Rwanda give a flavour of what these days were like- an apocalypse of vicious hatred and barbarism. It is estimated that a million people died in these 100 days, with many people missing, and their bodies lacking any form of identification or burial. The numbers of dead were too many to count, and the individual stories harrowing in the extreme. Many fled the country and went to refugee camps across the border.

So in the years after the genocide, the focus was on how to honour the dead, how to pursue justice and to forgive. The government of Paul Kagame – the former RPF leader- began a programe of rebuilding. The UN’s International Criminal Tribunal for Rwanda, the Rwandan court system, and the community led Gacaca courts sought to bring justice for the survivors.

Yesterday I visited the Kigali Genocide Memorial, where 250,000 bodies are buried. The permanent exhibition gives a poignant, detailed and horrific account of the events leading up to the genocide, and of the genocide itself.

This is a quotation from one of the survivors ‘There will be no humanity without forgiveness, there will be no forgiveness without justice, but justice will be impossible without humanity.’ It is so complex, and the wounds are deep, but people are searching for a way forward.

In Ephesians 4:32 Paul writes “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

This is a beautiful teaching, to be kind and compassionate. We need more of this in the world. But how do we forgive? Remembering how much Jesus Christ has forgiven our sins is a great starting place, for this motivates us to forgive. The meaning of forgiveness is that we let go of hatred in our hearts, not necessarily that we become the friend of the person who hurt us- and they are still accountable for their actions. Letting go of ill will is one thing, but learning to trust again is a whole different thing.

In the last few days I have had the privilege of listening to genocide survivors, people who have often lost their spouses and many of their children. Their stories are harrowing, the emotions often raw even after all this time. Yet in the midst of this, you meet many people who mourn the violent history of the past, but also somehow find the courage to try to let go of past betrayals and to seek to rebuild. There is generational damage, but also a desire to ask God to help them. The work of Comfort International supports this societal and individual healing process in its projects with genocide survivors, street children and many other ministries. Sometimes the work of forgiveness starts with practical action, with creating safe places to tell stories, to connect with God, self and others. It takes a long time, there can be setbacks and misunderstandings, but it is the only road to healing. May we all have courage to pursue paths of peace.

Eternal Father, we seek to pursue paths of peace, but when there is violence, hurt and betrayal, it is so hard – the wound is so very deep. Lord Jesus on the cross, you said Father forgive, for they do not know what they are doing. Lord Jesus today we pray that all people would gave a desire to forgive, and that this would help them heal. We recognise that the perpetrator is still accountable for their actions, and we leave this with you. Meantime holy spirit, soften hard hearts, enable confession and accountability, forgiveness and freedom. We thank you for the example of many brave genocide survivors, and pray that You would show us how to live, with compassion and forgiveness as central to our lives. Give us wisdom we pray, Amen.

Rwanda adventure!

With Comfort International

I have the enormous privilege of being out in Rwanda with Comfort International. Comfort International is a developmental charity, whose focus is to help rebuild lives of those affected by poverty, conflict and genocide. I am out visiting some of their partner projects, to support their work, and to meet some of the people involved.

As a country, Rwanda has had a difficult history after the genocide against the Tutsi in 1994, when almost a million died in 100 days of violence. If you want to read more about what happened, two books give some insights into it. One is the book by Philip Gourevitch ‘We wish to inform you that tomorrow we will be killed with our families’ and the ‘Shake hands with the devil’ by Romeo Dallaire, a Lieutenant General of the Canadian forces present in Rwanda in 1994. These are very painful and difficult reads, but they tell the story of what happened in more detail. The most awful thing is that a nunber of people are of the opinion that the genocide could have been prevented, if the 1993 Arusha peace agreements had been enforced.

A new government has tried to bring stability to the country, but the wounds run deep. Comfort International was founded in 1999, and started to work with partners to support some of those worst affected, orphans, families and genocide survivors. It has now expanded its work to neighbouring countries like Burundi, Democratic Republic of Congo, South Sudan and Uganda.

There is too much to put into a blog, but I am part of  a team visiting Comfort Babies, working with young families. It was such a privilege to meet some of the young mums and their families, and to hear their stories.

We also went to one of the Street Children projects, working with children who were often abandoned by their parents, and who were living in the nearby rubbish dumps.  The testimonies of these children, of what had happened to them, and the support given to them by the project were deeply moving. Some of them were so young, but had already seen so much in their short lives. We pray for them, to be able to find the support they need.

We have also visited a Genocide Survivors group, who spoke about their experiences 32 years ago. One man lost his sight, another experienced the deaths of  10 relatives, and the stories of the women are equally harrowing. For some people they found relief in telling their stories, just knowing that they were heard. For others, God had brought healing and helped them find a new way forward, and they were thankful.

It is hard to know how to respond to such tragic stories of violence, trauma and inhumanity. As a start, maybe just holding the space to hear their stories, to weep with them, to pray and to seek to build community and trust is all we can do.

Gracious God, we are heartbroken by stories of violence and brutality, with devastating  consequences for communities and across generations. Lord God soften our hearts that we might listen attentively, and respond with compassion and prayer. Lord Jesus Christ, you spent time with those you met on the road, you healed the sick, you listened and loved. Thank you for showing us the value of each human life, and the need to treat all with dignity and respect. In places where there has been wounding and brokeness bring healing and restoration. Holy spirit, help us to be challenged to respond, to pray, to give and to take action, to seek to  prevent hatred and violence from prevailing. In the conflict between good and evil, may the cross remind us that love prevails over hatred, and light over darkness, and so may we recommit ourselves to work for all that is good. In Jesus’ name, Amen.